Tuesday, 15 July 2014

Why do people please others ?....Sahar Gharachorloo ~Therapist

Caring Vs. Pleasing ....

Pleasing is when the person has been conditioned that unless he behaves a certain way he would not be accepted and be considered good enough , it comes from self judgement , conditioning, feeling of not good enough , a people pleaser is not doing something because he likes it , he does things in order to be liked .....caring comes from compassion n is real and it is done when necessary however it may have underlining of attachment to it.