When
we compete with others we feel frustrated, when we compete with our own
self we stay motivated ...Don't ever judge your achievements and success
on the basis of how other people are doing and where they stand but
judge yourself on the basis of how far you have come ...Everyone has
different capabilities and everyone is born with different combinations
genes, everyone grows in different set of
atmosphere and everyone is gifted in some way , when we compare and
compete with others we are using a set of standards as the base of our
judgement that we are not even fully aware of neither we can change them
however when we do self analysis ,we deal with our-self and are very
aware of all the inputs of any type, so we can have realistic goals and
also know how to push for the extra mile! It is important to know one's
own self well and keep our Goals as per our own capabilities ..
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