We
talk and hear about emotional abuse in many relationships...and mainly
between life partners , my experience with many people has been such an
eye opening experience and actually a scary one ....what I am going to
share may shock many people but it is the absolute truth!!! In many
cases the emotional abuse starts from the very childhood age ....by
Parents....I know it is sounding absurd but it's
a bitter truth....most our issues in our relationships is rooted from
our childhood experiences n traumas we go through , many at times the
child feels rejected by either parents or continuously is being compared
with other children or siblings....the womb memories of not being
wanted when the mother feels her pregnancy is a mistake or when any of
the parents or family member is not happy with arrival of the newly
born....it is so important as parents to watch every word, every action ,
every thought....as maybe the child would not be aware but the Soul
knows it all and carries it all which results in many relationship ,
even professional issues ....
The child may grow up trying to seek
love and approval by over doing , over giving, being used to accepting
emotional abuse unless it's too late to rectify....the child may grow
with a sense of low self esteem as a result of being always compared
with others, he may become too shy and passive or overly short tempered
and arrogant as we all form some form of defense mechanism.....my
request to all patents is to be more aware....more conscious....more
compassionate n see your child as a Soul n not a person or a child
.....help them to be liberated to follow their passion in pursuit of
their happiness ....not to bind them in emotional traumas and dramas due
to our own insecurities.... To make them fulfill their dreams and not
ours....let us be and help them be !!!
